Hygiene Rule in Norway, Rational? No way
In Norway, the Norwegian Child Protective Services have taken away from an Indian couple, Anurup and Sagarika Bhattacharya from Kolkata, their children — a three-year-old son and one-year-old daughter placed in foster care. The measure was taken as the couple was not bringing the children up properly. That is, they were feeding the children with their hands and the infants slept in the same bed as the parents!
In Norway, what the Child Protective Service has been doing has been much criticized. The Service is a powerful body charged with protecting the rights of children living in difficult family situations. But there are many reports of excesses. A UN report in UN in 2005 criticized Norway for taking too many children in public care. The amount was 12,500 children and Norway is a small country.
In Norway, the Norwegian Child Protective Services have taken away from an Indian couple, Anurup and Sagarika Bhattacharya from Kolkata, their children — a three-year-old son and one-year-old daughter placed in foster care. The measure was taken as the couple was not bringing the children up properly. That is, they were feeding the children with their hands and the infants slept in the same bed as the parents!
What is so very wrong in feeding children or infants with one’s hand? Or in teaching them to eat with their fingers? In India and other countries of Asia especially South East Asian and Arab countries as well as in African countries, eating with the hand is very common. It is a religious and cultural aspect of life. For centuries, that is the tradition in these countries.
Eating with hands is perhaps the most practical and sensible way of eating. The food is easy to hold and carry to the mouth when we use the hand. Importantly, you are able to verify the temperature of the food before putting it into your mouth and in this way one can avoid burning the mouth in case the food is too hot. For children, in particular, this is very necessary. It is safe for children because there is little chance of overfeeding.
For children, it is a process of experimenting and learning to interact with their food. This is the way that they can develop a sense of liking for what they eat. It is said that children dirty their clothes and surroundings and make a mess when they eat with the hand! Parents are over fastidious and constantly attend to their children when they are eating, for instance, wiping their lips after every bite. This actually irritates children who develop a dislike for meals.
Encouraging finger feeding helps children develop independent, healthy eating habits. It gives babies a measure of control over what they eat and how much. Sometimes they'll eat the food, sometimes not, and all that is an important part of the children learning self-regulation.
Eating with hand is more scientific than eating with the spoon and the fork in hand. The human body is laden with bacteria of many kinds, in different parts of the body—on the skin, in mouth, intestine and so on (the normal flora). The largely harmless bacteria that give us protection from the outside environment or from the ‘harmful’ bacteria are first given to us from birth and the touch of the mother’s skin and hands. It is important to maintain this bacteria culture for better health and immunity throughout life. By getting too hygiene conscious and using spoons and forks for a long time, the pattern of this culture gradually changes or there is loss in the amount of normal flora in the gut. One then loses one’s immunity to environmental bacterial pathogens. If such people are suddenly exposed to harmful bacteria, their immunity collapses and they become victim to various infections. It is worthwhile to note that the people of the very hygiene-conscious west are most sensitive to allergies, rashes and infections like gastroenteritis when they go to travel other parts of the world. On the other hand, poor people who live in very ordinary conditions or the slum people do not fall prey to infections that easily.
Licking fingers produces more saliva which helps to digest food faster.
Eating with the fingers gives a rare satisfaction, as the contact between the person and the food is maximum here. As Mohammad Reza Shah Pahlavi, Shah of Iran, the last king of Persia, once remarked that eating with the spoon and fork was like talking to one’s beloved through an interpreter!
Eating with the hand is a much more sensual experience that adds touch to sight, smell and taste. It is thoroughly ecological; and it breaks all social boundaries.
Coming to the West’s criticism of eating with the hands, it seems to be ignorant of the fact that there are rules to be observed in eating with the hand in different religions and cultures. Indians and most other people eat only with the right hand and not the left hand, for hygienic reasons. The hands are washed thoroughly. The West insists on using spoons, knives and forks probably because it is not aware of the concept of washing hands before eating. In the Western culture, use of water is not necessary for the purposes of washing—washing the hands, whether its before or after eating; having a bath; or even washing hands after answering the call of nature. It is even mocked at when an Indian chooses to use water instead of the toilet roll when in the West. Interestingly, Indians can be seen to rinse their hands and mouths after meals even when they use spoons and forks, or even when finger bowls are provided or when paper or cloth napkins are given. It may also be noted that the Western way of using the fork and knife is considered the right eating ‘etiquette', even though when it comes to hamburgers, pizzas, and French fries the Americans and the Europeans are not shy of using their hands.
The emergence of cutlery as in the West can also be seen as an attempt to establish class distinction - and to place one culture above all others.
If eating with the hand is so unhygienic, what about breast-feeding children. Mothers, especially after the birth of their infants, do not constantly wash their breasts with water and soaps but still continue to keep the child close to the body and feed it. Aren’t there unwashed bacteria on the skin? Why do doctors insist on breast feeding then, especially in the West?
The other issue that the Norwegian state has raised is that of parents sleeping with their little children. This is a social and cultural aspect common in India and other countries. Traditionally, children are not pushed away from their life-giving parents, especially the mother, and towards ‘independence’ right from the time they are born. Our children do not sleep alone right from a few weeks or months after birth, as if it is an ordained law. Parents do it in the West and modern Indians ape them for the simple reason of convenience. Parents want to be intimate with each other minus the child’s presence for obvious reasons.
Even among animals or birds, care is provided to babies and young ones for a long time in some cases, as in the case of elephants. As researchers have noted, many modern parents need to watch the kind of attention mothers of chimpanzees, for instance, give their young in order to love their children better. Making babies and little children sleep alone is not going to make them more independent; it only makes them feel insecure as they are left uncared for and unloved (especially at a time when they are most frightened—in the night). Apparently, in the West, ‘sleeping together’ has only one meaning attached to it. So even when a mother sleeps with her infant or a father sleeps with his little son, it is objected to as being akin to some kind of sexual abuse in the making. What this shows is a diseased mentality that is obsessed with perversions, that has to interpret every show of affection or bonding as a possible perversion.
In Norway, what the Child Protective Service has been doing has been much criticized. The Service is a powerful body charged with protecting the rights of children living in difficult family situations. But there are many reports of excesses. A UN report in UN in 2005 criticized Norway for taking too many children in public care. The amount was 12,500 children and Norway is a small country.
The question is also as to what happens to these children in public care. Who can love and provide for children better than parents? What is the state of these children once they grow up? They would feel emotionally and psychologically severed from their parents and cut off from all familial ties that are fundamental to the healthy growth of individuals.
To what extent can the state interfere in private lives? It is undemocratic, illiberal and downright authoritarian when the state forcibly takes away children who are growing up in secure environments with both their parents providing them security and love.
To what extent can the state interfere in private lives? It is undemocratic, illiberal and downright authoritarian when the state forcibly takes away children who are growing up in secure environments with both their parents providing them security and love.
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